11month3In the evening, the School of Electrical Engineering is in the lecture hall107Organize a love analysis lecture on "The Collision of Venus and Mars"，The lecture is given by Liu Qianqian, a teacher from the Psychology Center，20、21-level counselors and classmates attended this lecture.

Liu Qianqian opened the question in the form of a questionnaire，Putted a number of questions to the students: Have the students listened to love lectures before？Have any of your classmates ever had any love experience?？And through big data analysis, we learned the basic situation of the participating students，Start "prescribing the right medicine"。Liu Qianqian's "Men Are from Mars"，Women Are from Venus" as an example，From the perspective of human evolution and the love triangle theory，Explains the reasons why boys and girls are different in daily life，And provide students with practical suggestions on how to get along with the opposite sex in daily life。How boys and girls should respond when facing pressure、How to express love when two people love each other、How to "break the ice" when two people's love enters the "freezing period" and other issues that students are eager to pay attention to，Liu Qianqian gave detailed answers。During lecture，The interactions between students on the barrage are wonderful，The atmosphere of the discussion was lively。

Liu Qianqian emphasized how to find a love partner, the issue that students are most concerned about: a sense of security is an essential part of a happy love，And analyzed the influence of the original family on love from the perspective of psychological evolution。Characteristics for engineering students in the School of Electrical Engineering，Liu Qianqian also thoughtfully gave secrets such as the "Straight Man's Love Handbook"，Teaching appropriate confession and rejection skills together，At the same time, we call on students to pay attention to the knowledge related to college students’ sexual mental health，Do the right thing at the right time。

The success of this lecture has provided students with a correct understanding of love relationships、Reasonable treatment of conflicts in love plays an important role，At the same time, it also provides valuable suggestions on how to strike a balance between love and studies，Establish a more perfect relationship with classmates、Correct concept of love，It is beneficial to embark on a happy life。